Loosing Confidence at Work?

At some point in time in your work­place, you feel that con­fi­dence is gone.  You seemed to be loos­ing direc­tion in your work.  You feel unmo­ti­vated.  “What’s going on?  I don’t get it!” you may ask.  You have no clue of it and con­tinue to drop deeper into a spi­ral of despair… BUT HEY! Before you dropped even deeper, do you know con­fi­dence can be regained if you re-assess your­self?  Per­sonal aware­ness is the key in regain­ing your con­fi­dence back!

Con­fi­dence can be lost in a vari­ety of ways.  It can be after a series of fail­ures at work, or con­sis­tent lec­tures from an un-motivating and demand­ing boss.   Set­backs after set­backs def­i­nitely will bring the even a strong man down with doubts of your abil­i­ties.  You start to loose touch from your per­sonal aware­ness of your abil­i­ties.  You start to ques­tion your abil­i­ties.  You begin to be unaware of what you can achieve.  You do not know what to deliver.  You begin to drift into “I do not know what I can do”.  If you con­tinue to drift, you even­tu­ally end up hope­less and loos­ing your self-worth, falling into the com­bi­na­tion of “I do not know what I can do” and “I do not know what I can­not do”.

On the oppo­site end, a con­fi­dent you would have know what to do.  You know what your abil­i­ties are.  You know you can achieve.  You do not cast doubts on your­self.  You deliver results.  Essen­tially, you would have belonged to the “I know what I can do” and “I know what I can­not do”, “I know what I can do” and “I do not know what I can­not do”.  This is where you want to be again.

So now, throw the despair feel­ings aside.   To regain your con­fi­dence back, you’ve got to move your­self back to the cor­rect quad­rant, the con­fi­dent com­bi­na­tions.  You’ve got to move your­self away from “I do not know what I can do” and “I do not know what I can­not do” to “I know what I can do” and “I know what I can­not do” com­bi­na­tion.  You’ve got to re-look at the Me fac­tor in your­self.  Re-assess all your abil­i­ties.  Ask some­one else for their opin­ion on you.  They may have a dif­fer­ent view of your abil­i­ties.  Do you have the qual­i­ties that are use­ful in the given sit­u­a­tion where you failed?  Was it a direct fit in that given sit­u­a­tion?  Think Sit­u­a­tion fac­tor.  It may not be always your fault.    In this way, when you work from the inner self of per­sonal aware­ness, you will real­ize your self-worth.  Remem­ber, self-worth leads to confidence.

Con­fi­dence is all about know­ing your­self and what you can do.  Con­fi­dence is your level of self-worth and hope.  All these relates closely to per­sonal aware­ness.  It is essen­tial that it served as a foun­da­tion block for you to regain con­fi­dence.  Do not despair that you are loos­ing con­fi­dence.  The answer is that you have yet to find your­self, the per­sonal aware­ness within.  Give ample amount of time for your­self to dis­cover the per­son within.  Even­tu­ally, you will see the light at the end of the tunnel.

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