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		<title>Don’t Judge the Book by its Look!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone has a fatal flaw of pre-judgement.  We always judge too quickly about someone on their social status, achievements and capabilities when we first approach them.  This is somewhat unavoidable and ingrain in our mental models.  What lies behind their mask may be something totally opposite to what you always believe.  He may not be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone has a fatal flaw of pre-judgement.  We always judge too quickly about someone on their social status, achievements and capabilities when we first approach them.  This is somewhat unavoidable and ingrain in our mental models.  What lies behind their mask may be something totally opposite to what you always believe.  He may not be what you think either from a good point or bad point of view.  Find out what you maybe thinking of a person here.<span id="more-464"></span></p>
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<li><strong>The person maybe more      capable then what you think – </strong>There are times when you take a glance of a      person and he will give you that no-confidence look.  The assurance that he is able to give is      almost zero.  But amazingly, at      times of crisis, or critical situation, he is able to deliver as what you      want.  He may not be able to shine      in his normal self, but at extreme situations, he outshone everyone in his      capabilities.  Now looking back, if      you did feel he is incapable, you may feel that you’ve already made a      wrong judgement from the start!</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-467" title="01-HARDCOVER-BOOK-perspective-a_d" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/01-HARDCOVER-BOOK-perspective-a_d-300x225.jpg" alt="01-HARDCOVER-BOOK-perspective-a_d" width="300" height="225" />The person maybe less      capable then what you believe he to be</strong> – Usually such people are good in      delivering quality lip services.       They promise the whole universe for you.  But when it comes down to the crunch,      they are unable to deliver what they promised to you.  They dodge questions.  The shift responsibilities.  However, the problem is, you never know      if they are capable in the first place.       Unless you are really really good in determining a person’s true      character.  What you should do is to      give yourself time to observe this person.       Make him win your trust in his capabilities.  Take his words at face value till he can      uphold what he is capable of.</li>
<li><strong>You never know who you      will end up with</strong> – By having the wrong impression of a person that he is not      capable enough, you are likely going to look down on him or his      achievements.  Now, with the world      so small and the industry that you are working in small as well, there      will be a likely chance that you will meet the same person again      (especially in a small country).       Don’t offend the person as his achievements one day may be greater      than you.  You might need his help      in future too!  Do not be a snob      now!  You will regret for doing that      in future.  Learn to be modest when      you are meeting people.</li>
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<p>Our immediate advice to you on judging people is, do not judge people in the first place.  We are no good judge ourselves and it’s best to keep our modest opinion on others to ourselves.  Give some room for doubts.   Learn to observe the person more, find out if he honours what he committed to do.  If a person is always underperforming in your eyes, give some room for doubts.  He may not be what you believe he is to be.  Learn not to jump into conclusion after meeting the person.  Time will truly tell if the person is worth what type of person he is.  Again, the saying goes, “Don’t Judge the Book by its Look!”</p>
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