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	<title>Lost In Cubes &#187; Workplace Survival</title>
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	<description>Workplace Politics . Personal Productivity . Effectiveness . Survival . Negotiation</description>
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		<title>Get a Bountiful Bonus This Year! (Part 2)</title>
		<link>http://www.lostincubes.com/get-a-bountiful-bonus-this-year-part-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 06:55:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are factors that can affect your performance bonus.  Some things are out of our control.  That is the current economy outlook, the business outlook, the company performance and any profit (or lost) in the year.  Of course, anyone of us would not settle for a small bonus after working like hell for the year.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are factors that can affect your performance bonus.  Some things are out of our control.  That is the current economy outlook, the business outlook, the company performance and any profit (or lost) in the year.  Of course, anyone of us would not settle for a small bonus after working like hell for the year.  But at least, you know the reasons behind it and may feel better after knowing it.  Find out the reasons why your bonus is small this year. <span id="more-508"></span></p>
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<li><strong>Your company is not      making money – </strong>Ok      this is to make you feel better only.       Everyone in the company is not getting a good bonus this year.  Therefore, do not feel bad about it      because you are not the only one.       Especially in a recession, when companies are feeling the threat of      poor business or even closing down, you should feel fortunate that there      is some form of reward in this period.</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-509" title="cash" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/cash-300x225.jpg" alt="cash" width="300" height="225" />Your company is plain      stingy about performance reward</strong> – Ok, now if the economy is good and everyone      is making money.  Your company is      making money as well.  But your      reward is not fantastic at all even in these good times.  Now that is unreasonable.  They company do not really appreciate      the hard work the employees have put in.       If that is the situation you are in, it may be time to find another      company that rewards you accordingly.</li>
<li><strong>Your manager just      does not appreciate your work </strong>– Tough luck on this one.  Your manager is that type that doesn’t      appreciate your work.  What you had      been doing for the past one year is nothing but plain work to do      them.  It is a job to them and that      doesn’t mean anything to him.  There      are two ways to work about this.  First,      is to really understand your manager thoroughly and find out the things      that are important to him, and work on those things instead!  That is, pin-pointing to what he wants      and deliver it to appeal to him.       Second, if this is how your manager functions as a leader that does      not appreciate his employees, it’s time to update your resume and make      plans for your career.</li>
<li><strong>You offended your      manager in the past</strong> – This is another manager problem.  You      may have offended your manager in the past in some way or another.  Example, you disagree of his proposal in      front of the customer, or you overwritten his decisions on certain task      and it turned out working better than what your manager proposes.  These managers are generally      narrow-minded and do not see that you are able to contribute to the      organisation.  They see their      personal interests immediate.  If      this is the case, our advice is for you to get a new job instead.  It is meaningful to work under him as he      will always be basing on his personal interest instead of yours or the      organisation when he makes any decisions.</li>
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<p>These are some reasons that you are not getting a bountiful bonus than your peers.  However, at times, everyone in the company gets affected due to economic situation, market outlook, poor business or bad profits.  What’s worst is an under appreciative manager that treat you as pure labour without giving you the right rewards for your effort throughout the year.  Getting to understand these factors may make you feel better.  However, if things are within your control, take charge of it and make plans for a bountiful bonus the next coming work year.</p>
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		<title>Get a Bountiful Bonus This Year!</title>
		<link>http://www.lostincubes.com/get-bountiful-bonus-this-year/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 03:43:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is easy to measure performance and rewards in an organisation that is profit-driven.  The more money the company make, the more bonuses the employees get (especially the banks!).  The more sales the sales person clocks for the year, the more bonus he gets as commission.  Without profit-driven, it can be rather difficult to measure [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is easy to measure performance and rewards in an organisation that is profit-driven.  The more money the company make, the more bonuses the employees get (especially the banks!).  The more sales the sales person clocks for the year, the more bonus he gets as commission.  Without profit-driven, it can be rather difficult to measure the performance of an individual.  That is a common problem in non-profit driven organisations, such as the government sector or those that supports the sales function (e.g. administration, operations, etc).<span id="more-502"></span></p>
<p>Measuring performance becomes difficult when no direct profit is tied to the things the individual does.  It becomes a quality of deliverables.  Generally, it also depends on their management if they like the employees a not (favouritism) which results in recommendation of the individual. Quality itself is hard to measure and people have different likings in their employees.  So, before you start jumping on the pathetic bonus you are receiving this year, let’s look at some things that will land you a lower chance to get a bountiful one this year!</p>
<ol>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-503" title="cash1" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/cash1-300x198.jpg" alt="cash1" width="300" height="198" />You are doing well in      the organisation and area of work but that is not important to your      organisation or your management</strong> – The first complain that you will receive in      all non-profit driven organisations.       Yes, you had been doing well for what you are doing.  You ensure that the servers are running      24 / 7 a day, no down-time.  You      always deliver reports timely.  You      always ensure that you filed the right document in the right folder.  But all these are not important to      them.  Importance is relative to      each of us!  If you do feel this way      that the organisation is not paying for your hard work.  Time to rethink ways to make you pay      well instead!  Work smart, not hard!</li>
<li><strong>What you are doing      does not appeal to the management</strong> – The first point goes to this second      point.  Of all the operational work      you are doing, making sure that things are fine and normal, it is not      important to the management.  It does      not appeal to them.  It does not      bring them further.  If that is the      case, take a moment to understand your management on what it is important      to them.  Remember, they are the      ones that will put you on the recommendation list and it is always wise to      do things that appeal to them!</li>
<li><strong>You are working in      the wrong department </strong>–      The department’s function is generally operational and supportive.  They don’t bring in profit.  They don’t bring in strategic      value.  They need to be there and      someone has to do the job.  If you      are in it, it’s either you learn to appreciate that this is the type of      department you are in and you will definitely get a smaller share of the      bonus pie.  If not, it’s time to      move out to someplace that offers better!</li>
<li><strong>You have limited      exposures in front of your managers</strong> – The key thing of getting managers to      recommend you is to increase your “exposure” rate in front of them.  They need to know you.  If you spend most of the time avoiding      your managers, they will not know you and will not likely put you on their      recommendation list.  They will only      put those they know and those that bring value to them!  Make some time to interact with your      managers.  It can be work or      off-work stuff.  The key thing is to      increase your “exposure”!</li>
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<p>These are some reasons that you are not getting a bountiful bonus than your peers.  Take some charge and make changes to your working style.  Re-think of what is valuable and important to your management.  Increase the chances you interact with your managers and you stand a higher chance of a bountiful bonus this coming work year.</p>
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		<title>Be Productive — Stay Healthy!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 08:35:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ 
What you do not want to do is to be on medical leave for your most important meeting in the office for the week.  Often, we neglect the very basic need of our individual needs that is our personal health.  A healthy body allows us to think and work properly in the office.  It [...]]]></description>
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<p>What you do not want to do is to be on medical leave for your most important meeting in the office for the week.  Often, we neglect the very basic need of our individual needs that is our personal health.  A healthy body allows us to think and work properly in the office.  It is required for personal productivity.  You won’t be able to do anything if you fall sick easily and therefore, it is essential that we take good care of our body to keep ourselves afloat of our busy lifestyle and schedules.<span id="more-494"></span></p>
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<li><strong>Listen to your body</strong> – Most often, we neglect tell-tale signs that our body is falling      apart in the office.  We often push      ourselves above our limits and tire the body.  If you get lethargic easily at work, it      is time to take a more proactive observation of your body.  Your body might be signalling to you      that it needs some rest.  Yes we got      time line to meet.  But you will      need the body to meet the timeline.       Before your body fully breaks down into colds, take a break and get      yourself away from work for a few minutes.       When you are at home, pamper yourself and give yourself more      sleep.  These necessary breaks will      allow you to get back your energy and health so that you can continue your      work the following day!</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-495" title="Corporate Wellness Photo" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Corporate-Wellness-Photo-300x199.jpg" alt="Corporate Wellness Photo" width="300" height="199" />Learn your limits – </strong>Another problem with fast moving individuals these days, is not      knowing their limits.   They push harder than what they can cope.  They rush to meet the datelines and      ignore that they have broken their body limits.  Your body needs the rest and its working      even harder when you are pushing over the limits.  The body will tell you signs that it is      working too hard.  Take a moment to      listen to your body and rest.       Record times that you feel stressful physically and mentally.  Learn that these are your limits.  Manage your work style in a way that      does not push your limits overboard.       What you need is a healthy challenge, not one that will create      health problems!</li>
<li><strong>Stretch – </strong>The simplest form of relaxation that you can do while sitting on the      chair.  Stretching is beneficial as      it releases the tension on your muscles, improves blood circulation and      gives you a logical break of whatever you are doing.  If you are reading this right now, take      a moment to stretch real hard!  If      you can, stand up and do a full body stretch!  You’ll feel refreshed and alert after      the full body stretch and ready to continue what you have left off!</li>
<li><strong>Take the stairs</strong> – You may have the luxury of time      to exercise daily or even weekly.       Why leave the exercise routine to the gym and parks?  Why not turn the office building into a      workout facility?  You can skip the      lifts and take the stairs up to your office floor.  Taking the stairs is helpful in working      out your leg muscles and also working out the heart.  Make it a daily habit and you’ll be glad      that you started it.  You will reach      office with a healthier mind and body and ready with the challenges for      the day!</li>
<li><strong>Enjoy the sun</strong> – Most of our time is locked up in      the air-conditioned building.  You      get exposed to the virus and bacteria that is transmitted through the      central ventilation or air-conditioning system.  Get yourself out of the office and enjoy      the sun.  The sun will brighten you      up and give you a chance to break away from being exposed to the virus and      bacteria.  Furthermore, the sunlight      provides you Vitamin D that is helpful to your health!</li>
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		<title>Don’t Judge the Book by its Look!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 05:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everyone has a fatal flaw of pre-judgement.  We always judge too quickly about someone on their social status, achievements and capabilities when we first approach them.  This is somewhat unavoidable and ingrain in our mental models.  What lies behind their mask may be something totally opposite to what you always believe.  He may not be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone has a fatal flaw of pre-judgement.  We always judge too quickly about someone on their social status, achievements and capabilities when we first approach them.  This is somewhat unavoidable and ingrain in our mental models.  What lies behind their mask may be something totally opposite to what you always believe.  He may not be what you think either from a good point or bad point of view.  Find out what you maybe thinking of a person here.<span id="more-464"></span></p>
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<li><strong>The person maybe more      capable then what you think – </strong>There are times when you take a glance of a      person and he will give you that no-confidence look.  The assurance that he is able to give is      almost zero.  But amazingly, at      times of crisis, or critical situation, he is able to deliver as what you      want.  He may not be able to shine      in his normal self, but at extreme situations, he outshone everyone in his      capabilities.  Now looking back, if      you did feel he is incapable, you may feel that you’ve already made a      wrong judgement from the start!</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-467" title="01-HARDCOVER-BOOK-perspective-a_d" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/01-HARDCOVER-BOOK-perspective-a_d-300x225.jpg" alt="01-HARDCOVER-BOOK-perspective-a_d" width="300" height="225" />The person maybe less      capable then what you believe he to be</strong> – Usually such people are good in      delivering quality lip services.       They promise the whole universe for you.  But when it comes down to the crunch,      they are unable to deliver what they promised to you.  They dodge questions.  The shift responsibilities.  However, the problem is, you never know      if they are capable in the first place.       Unless you are really really good in determining a person’s true      character.  What you should do is to      give yourself time to observe this person.       Make him win your trust in his capabilities.  Take his words at face value till he can      uphold what he is capable of.</li>
<li><strong>You never know who you      will end up with</strong> – By having the wrong impression of a person that he is not      capable enough, you are likely going to look down on him or his      achievements.  Now, with the world      so small and the industry that you are working in small as well, there      will be a likely chance that you will meet the same person again      (especially in a small country).       Don’t offend the person as his achievements one day may be greater      than you.  You might need his help      in future too!  Do not be a snob      now!  You will regret for doing that      in future.  Learn to be modest when      you are meeting people.</li>
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<p>Our immediate advice to you on judging people is, do not judge people in the first place.  We are no good judge ourselves and it’s best to keep our modest opinion on others to ourselves.  Give some room for doubts.   Learn to observe the person more, find out if he honours what he committed to do.  If a person is always underperforming in your eyes, give some room for doubts.  He may not be what you believe he is to be.  Learn not to jump into conclusion after meeting the person.  Time will truly tell if the person is worth what type of person he is.  Again, the saying goes, “Don’t Judge the Book by its Look!”</p>
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		<title>Let’s Be Individualistic!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 05:56:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you do not have a goal, you are easily misled into doing things that is against your principles.  You may proceed as normal, receive it and work on it.  You question yourself the reason for doing this task at a point of time that you feel lost.  Is it valuable to do this task [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you do not have a goal, you are easily misled into doing things that is against your principles.  You may proceed as normal, receive it and work on it.  You question yourself the reason for doing this task at a point of time that you feel lost.  Is it valuable to do this task in the first place?  Did you question the benefit of performing this task to you?<span id="more-450"></span></p>
<p>Today, we are presenting an individualistic idea that will suit you when it comes down to the decision making.  Which means some might feel it is selfish idea or against their principles.  Whatever the case it’s fine with us.  Take it at face value and have a thought about it.  We must recognize one thing that is the pension days are gone.  Loyalty is not a selling point in keeping talents to stay.  It is the cash power that the organisation is willing to give to those that perform.  Therefore, think for yourself when you need to make a decision or take on tasks.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-451" title="Employee" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/Employee-300x198.gif" alt="Employee" width="300" height="198" />When you are assigned a new task, <strong>will it benefit you</strong> in anyway?  Example, the task is to track all employees’ daily activities.  Is this a task that is beneficial to you?  Does it help in your career progression?  When the time comes that you need to leave the organisation, can you put in the resume stating that you “track all employees’ daily activities” and have accomplishments such as, “I’ve caught 2 employees surfing Facebook daily”?  Of course, there are ways to package your job responsibilities in your resume in future.  But at the baseline, does such task bring any value to you?</p>
<p>Think if your organisation or your business function was to be disperse (be it for whatever reasons, such as sales is bad, merger and acquisition, or no longer find it strategic to continue the business function) and you need to leave (made to leave) the organisation, <strong>can you list down your selling points as a prospective employee </strong>with full of skill set?  What will they think if of you with your current job responsibilities?  Will your work experience (and the decisions make to contribute to the work experience) be useful to your prospective employer?  Think about what the market out there is wanting!</p>
<p>And remember<strong>, your decision is accountable to your family</strong>.  Of course, your decision may be accountable to your organisation.  But when you are being removed from the organisation, you no longer need to be accountable to them (you might even curse and swear at them!).  Instead, you are now accountable to your family in bringing the cash to feed them!  Do you have the right skill set to secure a new job and feed them?</p>
<p>The principles here are individualistic.  You work for yourself and your family.  Some may argue that this is a selfish mindset and hinders organisation progression or do not consider the emotions of other colleagues.  Agreed and disagreed.  Take this advice at face value and do things that you deem fit.  It’s not a 100% perfect solution and you might want to tune it here and there to make it perfect for you (and your character).  At the baseline, we are advising you that whatever you do, think for your career goals.   Do not blindly follow instructions from your bosses.  You may end up getting no where eventually!</p>
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		<title>How Do You Get Your Peers to Like You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
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				<category><![CDATA[Influence & Negotiation]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The way to influence your colleagues is to get them to like you.  That’s the basic right? Regardless of it is your superior, subordinates or your peers you will need them to like you before you can get them to believe what you are proposing.  Objectively, here, we are not showing the methods to be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The way to influence your colleagues is to get them to like you.  That’s the basic right? Regardless of it is your superior, subordinates or your peers you will need them to like you before you can get them to believe what you are proposing.  Objectively, here, we are not showing the methods to be a first class boot-licker nor are we recommending you to brain-wash yourself to what the person you are influencing is.   We are offering you methods that will make you generally pleasant, approachable and lovable by your peers.  How do you do that?<span id="more-369"></span></p>
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<li><strong>Be a capable colleague</strong> – That is to able deliver the results as per what you committed      and agreed with your colleagues.  This      is a work place.  What is important      is the amount of work delivered.       The quality of work delivered.       What your peers or bosses are looking for is if you are capable of      delivering and not if you are approachable to take on the tasks!  At the baseline, you are judge by your      ability not your friendship level.       Just think, who will you look for to do a project together when you      are being assigned one?  You will      always look for those capable ones to team up with, right?</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-370" title="happy_employee" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/happy_employee.jpg" alt="happy_employee" width="118" height="154" /></strong><strong>Be a friendly colleague</strong> – After your colleagues feel that you are trustworthy in delivering      results and abilities assured, you are now judged by your approachability.  Are you friendly enough that colleague      are comfortable to approach you for help?       Or you always giving a black face in front of them that they feel      you are “untouchable”?  Be friendly,      and you’ll be surprised that you will have more colleagues approaching you      and you might be happier too!</li>
<li><strong>Be honest</strong> – Whatever you do, be honest.       Your peers will be unpleased when they find out that their colleague      is not honest.  Nobody likes to work      with a liar (minus those that tells a white lie or a lie that is      beneficial for the entire team).  If      you do not know certain things at work, admit it.  Do not attempt to cover up yourself.  If you can’t deliver as per the      specified time line, admit the problem that you have.  In the long run, when your cover is blown,      you get an even bigger discontent among your peers than ever before!</li>
<li><strong>Be empathic</strong> – Being friendly involves the ability to listen with your      heart.  Your colleagues will not      want to be patronised.  They want      good advice from the heart. If you exercise empathic listening at work, we      believed that you have quite a fair amount of influence on your      colleagues. J</li>
<li><strong>Smile</strong> – Lastly, smile! And smile often.       Smiling breaks the cold wall barriers between individuals!  The more you smile to your colleagues at      work, the more likely they feel you are friendly and approachable.  They will list you as one of the      candidates of a potential team mate.</li>
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<p>So, with these methods, you will definitely find yourself in a position that everyone wants to approach you.  Do you have other methods that make people want to approach you instead?</p>
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		<title>How Approachable Are You in the Eyes of Your Peers?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 09:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Personal branding is important in our everyday life at work.  We want to portrait that we are a productive and approachable worker in the office.  But is that the case all the time?  Have you wondered why your peers were approach any colleague for help instead of you?  We have the answers for you here.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Personal branding is important in our everyday life at work.  We want to portrait that we are a productive and approachable worker in the office.  But is that the case all the time?  Have you wondered why your peers were approach any colleague for help instead of you?  We have the answers for you here.  At times, it’s not just about your capability.  We need to focus on your emotional aspect that you present in front of your peers too!  How are you seen in the eyes of your peers then?<span id="more-365"></span></p>
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<li><strong>You are seen by your      ability to deliver results</strong> – That’s a plus point.  Your peers are confident with your      capabilities at work.  But if you      are often not delivering results, your peers will be resistance to      approach you for help.  That is,      you’ve got bad credentials…</li>
<li><strong>You are seen by your      consistency in delivering </strong>results – This is different from your ability to      delivery.  This is about your      consistent deliver as per your specified time line.  Is it luck or other factors that allows      you to complete?  As the given      impression is that you may not be trustworthy or confident results, they      may feel hesitant to approach you for help.</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-366" title="girl-poking-out-tongue" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/girl-poking-out-tongue.jpg" alt="girl-poking-out-tongue" width="250" height="266" />You are seen by your      reaction in handling situations</strong> – Do you get all work out?  Does your emotion fall into pieces?  Do you worry all night long over the      situation?  Your peers would not      want a fiery monster or a worrisome loser to be in their team, right?</li>
<li><strong>You are seen by your      consistency in handling situations</strong> – Again, it is the question of      consistency and integrity in the way you deal with situations.  Are you trustworthy or do you treat each      situation differently?  Note,      flexibility can be exercised in different context.  The key thing is do you work on the same      principle?  Do you have      integrity?  Think. You would not      want to work with a <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">two-headed      snake</span></em>!</li>
<li><strong>You are seen by the      way you dress at work </strong>– Oddly, an individual with a poorer dress sense      is always labelled a geek.  Your      peers will immediate stereotype you and will that you are not approachable      or “That geek doesn’t understand me!”       Our advice for you if you look like a geek: go around the nearest      shopping mall and buy some proper executive clothes.  Make an effort in your dress sense and      avoid being seen as the garage geek from just across the road!</li>
<li><strong>You are seen by your personality      in front of them</strong> – That is everyday, what you look like in front of your      peers.  Do you look      approachable?  Do you look like a      worrisome person thinking of everything to worry about?  Do you look like a walking volcano      waiting to be erupting on the next thing that comes in your way?  That is what your peers label you.  In this case, due to your negative      personality, your peers will be hesitant to approach you for any help!</li>
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<p>Having read these points, what do you think you are presenting in front of your peers?</p>
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		<title>6 More Ways to Counter Back-Stabbers!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Backstabbers are always the lurking danger in the workplace.  We don’t have all the time to catch all of them else nobody will be doing actual work in the office!  Furthermore, anyone can become a back stabber as time passes or a series of events happening to the potential individual.  That is why, it is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Backstabbers are always the lurking danger in the workplace.  We don’t have all the time to catch all of them else nobody will be doing actual work in the office!  Furthermore, anyone can become a back stabber as time passes or a series of events happening to the potential individual.  That is why, it is more important to focus our energy to become less likely targets of potential back stabbers or deter their negative emotions against us.  Previously, we have mentioned <a title="5 Preventive Measures Against Backstabbing!" href="http://www.lostincubes.com/5-preventive-measures-to-counter-backstabbing/" target="_blank"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">5 preventive measures against them</span></em></a>.  In this post, we have an additional six to get you prepared against them.<span id="more-356"></span></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Keep your emails</strong> – The most simple      thing you can do at work.  Keep all      your email conversations and archive them if you run out of space.  These electronic emails will be useful      as evidences and proofs against biased remarks made against you in the      event that calls for it! J</li>
<li><strong>Document all conversations in the      workplace</strong> –      Document all verbal and phone conversations in an email and send it to the      party that you spoke to get their consensus on the conversation      content.  Being the same as keeping      emails, it will become useful as evidences and proofs in future!</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-357" title="6a00d83451fc5a69e200e55070c0a38833-800wi" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/6a00d83451fc5a69e200e55070c0a38833-800wi.jpg" alt="6a00d83451fc5a69e200e55070c0a38833-800wi" width="175" height="250" />Be sure to have someone to standby you      in any major decisions make</strong> – Find someone to back you up in any decisions you make.  Why?       First, you want to have a witness in your decision and when things      go against you, you have a witness to standy you.  Secondly, you may not be able to make a      major decision alone.  If you do,      you might get yourself into trouble and that may be used against you in      future.  Therefore, get someone to      share the risk with you!  If it      involves management, the troublemaker will have to think twice as there      are consequences to it. J       (Part of deterring these troublemakers is to make them think of the      consequences and the risk versus effort taken)</li>
<li><strong>Attempt to covered most of your loop      holes in your work</strong> – We cannot cover all the risks.       But at your best effort, cover all risk and loop holes.  You do not want to be uncovered of loop      holes by your back stabber, right?</li>
<li><strong>Always hang around with the “neutral”      guys of the organisation</strong> – Avoid the “bad” or “loud” guys of the organisation.  It’s birds of the same feather flying in      a flock.  Generally, “bad” or “loud”      groups tend to be at some kind of office power competition (of any      kind).  Therefore, you can avoid      being becoming a pawn in the struggle by not joining the group.  However, having said that, it’s still up      to individual preference on their social circle. J</li>
<li><strong>Be neutral in most situations</strong> – Being friendly and      not siding to anyone leaves you safe from most office power struggle.  If you do have a point you want to drive      across, be firm but at the same time give room for alternatives to those      potential back stabbers.  Give them      options to choose that will beneficial to them.  If you do not do that, you may end up      making enemies instead!</li>
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		<title>Fire Your Boss! Change Your Job!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 14:16:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Much of what the career advices we get out there is to be a better worker, or improve your personal productivity at work or something of this “better” natural.  Sometimes, we need to take a step back and ask, “Is this what I want?”, “Am I doing the right thing for myself?” or “Is this [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Much of what the career advices we get out there is to be a better worker, or improve your personal productivity at work or something of this “better” natural.  Sometimes, we need to take a step back and ask, “Is this what I want?”, “Am I doing the right thing for <em>myself</em>?” or “Is this the right job for me?”.  By answering such principle questions in our heart, it becomes easier for you to make a decision in your career.  Now, you always have an option in your hand to leave the organisation.  What will be the factors that will make you leave the organsation then?<span id="more-352"></span></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>Are you unhappy because the job is not      what you want?</strong> –      Simple, this is not the job that you truly dreamed off.  End the misery early by finding      something you like.  Avoid hanging      in this misery for too long!  You      will continue to be miserable if you hold on to it.</li>
<li><strong>Are you always doing the “dirty” work?</strong> – You are always been      given tasks that are of low value operational work.  You are not given tasks that are of high      value instead you are always assigned to those meaningless jobs…</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-353" title="career-direction" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/career-direction.jpg" alt="career-direction" width="230" height="230" />Are you being rejected for all your      training proposals?</strong> – Whatever training proposals that you made to the boss are always      rejected.  What’s worst is your      peers are entitled for the course while you stay in the office to clear      his plate of work!  Favoritism at      its best again?</li>
<li><strong>Are you not appreciated by your boss?</strong> – Whatever results      you delivered is just not up to the boss’es expectation.  They brush you off with insignificant      remarks.   They don’t really see the      effort you put into your work.</li>
<li><strong>Are you lowly paid compared to your      peers in the market?</strong> – If the salary you are getting is not comparable to what the      market is offering, it’s really time to move on.  You can wait for as long as you want,      but what you need maybe a fatter salary package to feed your family, pay      the mortgage and the car now!</li>
<li><strong>Are you always blame for anything and      everything?</strong> –      Whatever things that happened, you are always blamed.  What’s worst is even you have made      significant contributions or have been performing positively but is still      blamed for minor details at work.  Is      your boss finding all avenue to piss you off?  Or is there some short-circuit mechansim      in their brain that they need to pinpoint your every mistake?</li>
<li><strong>Are you at the losing end of favoritism?</strong> – You are always      given unfair treatment.  You are not      on par with the other colleagues when it comes to welfare and career      progression.  You are always not      considered for anything important except to work on simple, non-strategic      work.  Guess what, you are not being      favored by your boss!</li>
</ol>
<p>If what these are you are experiencing at work, it maybe time to update your resume.  The world is round and there are lots of opportunities up there.  Again, we are always being make believed to be a better worker in office but not many advocate to leave the organisation if you do not like it.  Take this piece of advice as a note and see if it can be planned and applied in your context.</p>
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		<title>Does Your Boss Likes You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 13:43:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Much of your performance appraisal will come from your immediate superiors.  Unless you are graded by your sales performance which is generally easier to benchmark with.  Therefore, it is essential survival skill to understand if your boss likes you.  Love you would be the best sceneraio that you would like to be in.  With your [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Much of your performance appraisal will come from your immediate superiors.  Unless you are graded by your sales performance which is generally easier to benchmark with.  Therefore, it is essential survival skill to understand if your boss likes you.  Love you would be the best sceneraio that you would like to be in.  With your boss liking you (not in terms of man-woman relationship), your career progression will generally be smooth than the others.  That’s of course, your personal productivity being improved as well!<span id="more-349"></span></p>
<ol>
<li><strong>You are always selected for training</strong> – You are are      selected to attend training most of the time.  Most training budget is allocated to you      and not everyone is having that same fair share of pie.</li>
<li><strong>You are always selected for the most      challenging assignments</strong> – Nope you are asked to run those errands or minor tasks      anymore.  Your boss trusts your      capabilities and is assiging you for control to work on most challenging      ones independently.</li>
<li><strong><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-350" title="boss-like-appreciate-200X200" src="http://www.lostincubes.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/boss-like-appreciate-200X200.jpg" alt="boss-like-appreciate-200X200" width="200" height="200" />You are always called into important      meetings</strong> –      You won’t be left out for important meetings.  Your boss have arranged for an      additional person to tag along into the meeting and that is you!  Furthermore, you are asked to cancel      other meetings or appointments to attend this one at all cost most of time.</li>
<li><strong>Your boss approaches you for decision      and discussion</strong> –      During normal work days, your boss will approach you for small discussions      or seek a 2<sup>nd</sup> opinion from you.       The frequency and content of the discussion is more than that of      any other colleagues.</li>
<li><strong>You are given protection against most      fault and errors</strong> – Whatever faults happened or any error made, you are given      additional protection as compared with your peers.  You are being shielded and supported on      your mistakes!</li>
<li><strong>Your boss invites you for lunch or      dinner</strong> –      Frequently.  He most comfortable      asking you along for lunch and dinner.       That includes gender difference favors with personal agenda as well…      but that’s one of the possibility that your boss will ask you out for a      meal!</li>
<li><strong>Your boss invites you to join his      personal sports</strong> –      You are there!  He LOVES you and      wants to share his interest together with you!  You have transit from a surbordinate to      a friend!</li>
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<p>Congratulations if you have most of these in your list!  You are well loved by your boss and your boss can’t wait to talk to you every morning when the work day starts!  If there isn’t any resemblence of the list, fret not!  The least you can know is that there are room for improvements!  What are your indicators that your boss likes you?</p>
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